We always talk about lack of education fueling rape culture. But lately with the disappointing morning news conversations, you realize it's even the privileged committing this heinous crime. If illiteracy was the cause of this sick mentality, I would be comforted that we have nailed down the cause and now it's just putting work into fixing it. With even the educated acting like animals, we have a much much bigger problem. As parents we aspire for stellar education for our kids and dream that one day they will graduate from the ivy leagues. But are my children's peers going to be committing gun violence and rape? Let's not talk about terrorism, if we can't fix the violence in our own homes.
Our parents generation probably didn't have to worry about "rape culture" and I say that with some confidence as when I was growing up the "uncomfortable" conversations with my parents were about making smart choices, choosing the right company, making informed decisions about the adventures and partners we choose.But at no point where we told that "look someone you go to school with may gun you down or rape you, so sleep with your eyes open." And now sadly, I will have to tell my son just that. It saddens me that our great generation has such amazing opportunities to offer but it also has been breeding sick, lonely minds with peer pressure and social media pressure at its highest ever, that makes one do ridiculous things to be accepted, to be cool.
This also makes me think about the current election season. If half of America is happily choosing a leader who rates women on a scale of 1 to 10, blatantly talked about their asses and body shames them along with supporting macro issues like unequal pay, insisting on pro- life just tells the story women are not equal to men, women can be manipulated and that "you" can decide for a woman when you are not one yourself. This in my opinion is catalyzing rape culture where the value of a woman is reduced to an object, you CAN take advantage of her vulnerabilities.
So, yes it is time we make the right decision and choose the right leaders but it is also time for us to reflect and address these issues with our children so they unequivocally know the right from wrong. It is not ok to objectify women, it is not ok to blame the rape victim and it is not ok for Schools and large institutions to sit back and be reactive rather than proactive about these pertinent issues. Yes, we will spend our life savings sending our children to great universities, so they become rounded individuals and we will invest time, emotion and great effort to raise them with a huge moral and emotional quotient and you - the politicians, leaders, institutions, you do the same, will you ? We need the same investment from you.
All hands on deck, the world needs its heart back.